What To Do When Love Ends?
Yes, it’s hard to get used to this idea. Love sometimes ends up dying out, and today it seems that relationships end more frequently, families break up, or third parties appear. Love comes to an end and doubts begin to arise about what we can do the moment we begin to believe that love is ending.
Is it better to be left or is it better for you to make the decision to end the relationship? Neither position is straightforward. It’s always difficult to give up or have to let go of something that made you happy, to see how time gradually depletes the strength between two people who thought they were strong enough to stick together. But keeping something for what it was in the past is not a good option.
Making the decision to end a relationship will always be difficult. We must therefore measure the pros and cons before doing so. Has there been a change? Can there be a solution? Do I want to fix this or do I want to stop fighting for this relationship? Is it exhaustion or a lack of desire? Don’t I deserve something better?
Thinking about all these points allows you to take a moment to reflect and make sure, before making a decision that may not be correct, that it will be at least adequate for the time it is made. Impulsivity, rage or sadness do not lead to good decisions, so you have to think about it, take your time and examine your feelings to be able to make the right choice.
Can we recover an extinct love?
In this specific case, there is no general theory that applies to all couples. Some will find the secret formula to get love back and others won’t, or won’t, or even try it. On the other hand, if one thing is certain, it is that if you want to and try with all your might, it may be possible.
In a couple, decisions are made in two, the work is done in two, the magic is created between the two and for both. When we want to get something back and when the two people are working in the same direction to build something in common, each one must do all he can because he wants to and knows that there is still love… In in this case, results can be achieved.
We know love can turn off but it does when both or one of the members stop trying and working for the relationship to work. If you believe that there is still a reason to struggle, do it, put all your strength into it, and then make a decision because, if you still want to, you can try again. At least you won’t have any regrets afterwards: you will have tried!
Different stages don’t mean love is extinguished
Love goes through different stages and believing that it has ended because you are going through a different stage than the beginning is a more common mistake than you might think. Going through this phase of falling in love is fascinating, but it’s not really real. We need to know our spouse as he is and this is what will give us the opportunity to truly love, without taboos.
Love may end, and when it does, you will have to move on. Making the decision to end a relationship can be difficult, but the pain that is felt when breaking up can be fleeting: after a while, we may (and most likely) be able to see. everything we lost with someone who didn’t make us happy.
Love is a long road and sometimes it is complicated; that’s why sometimes ending a relationship means keeping a pinch of love between the two of them in a different way and, other times, drawing the line away from something already completed can end up breaking the ends of those pulling. Take a moment to reflect and ask yourself the following thing: Is the person you are with today the one you want to draw your future with?
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