Life Is Wonderful If You Are Not Afraid Of It

But where do the fears that stop our happiness and our passion for life come from? Without a doubt, from ourselves.

We have this ability to worry about things that don’t exist, and to torment ourselves with issues that don’t have a solution.

Fear is necessary in our lives because it is a natural response to adverse and potentially dangerous events. However, we can learn to respond in a balanced way to each situation.

Fear takes over our lives

When we learn to respond with fear to a multitude of situations, we end up being at His mercy and we move through life like puppets, ruled by the circumstances around us.

To be dominated by fear is to lose yourself, and to stop moving forward to achieve your dreams and desires, because fear is an energy that paralyzes all our wills.

How is it possible to fight against fear? It is important to learn to avoid it and not to feed it.

As soon as we keep our fears from taking up so much space, they can end up completely collapsing. We must dare to take a step towards things as important as love, honesty and personal well-being.

Controlling our fears

We know that there are fears that are irrational and really out of proportion to reality.

However, we cannot escape it and we end up submitting to it, accepting that what we have to experience is what we experience.

It is not the external circumstances that motivate these fears, but our learning.

We must know how to distinguish and observe this type of unhealthy fears, in order to realize how much they affect our life.

The consequences of irrational fears are as follows:

• We are paralyzed, not knowing how to react to an important situation.

• We are overly vigilant in the face of fear. We run our imaginations too much in the wrong way.
• We leave out many things that are important to us and that we love because we believe that we cannot face the situation that we are facing.
• We forget the value of the things that are really important to us because we don’t face our fears.

When we analyze these irrational fears and try to find out what they protect us from, where they originate from, and how they can prove to be constructive, we take a step forward which is called understanding.

We then begin to face them and put them in their place, to gradually take away their power and value.

A world of possibilities opens up

When we finally face our fears, questioning them, without judging them and trying to understand them, we step into a new world of possibilities that is within everyone’s reach.

Everything can be wonderful when you are not afraid to live it.  Personal experiences come and go in our lives so that we take the necessary learning to take advantage of all that is within our grasp.

We cannot control what is going to happen around us, but we can take responsibility and take responsibility for how we are going to respond to situations that arise.

When we are able to understand this and carry it day in and day out in our lives, facing every step that we go through, we are ready to love and let go of our dreams.

We are the real masters of our happiness and of our passage through this moment which is called life.