The Situations We Attract Are A Reflection Of What We Need
Our world is this mental ground where our fears, our nostalgia, our desires, and ultimately all these things we talk about coexist. On the other hand, the people we attract reflect in a certain way the beliefs, whether about ourselves or about others, that we accumulate.
Often, we let people into our lives that we never thought we could fit into. People different from us whose goal is to help us understand, heal and forgive ourselves and others.
Often, we attract people who press buttons that we didn’t even know existed. People with a characteristic that we cannot accept in us, attitudes that we cannot see in ourselves, but that we can see in them. In a way, maybe we attract these people to help us fight our own internal battle.
Lots of people constantly complain about their love life, but oddly enough, they still attract people who don’t value them, leave them out, or don’t see them as a high priority. So, if generally you attract people who lie to you and cheat on you, think that maybe this is because you don’t value yourself, and your self-esteem is affected, which leads you to reflect the image of a small and vulnerable person. So, your lack of self-esteem would be what makes you a perfect victim for them; that’s what attracts them.
On the other hand, allowing unbalanced relationships without a strong reason is an unequivocal sign that something is wrong with us. If we put importance on these relationships, we are in fact in a cycle of influence, and we are likely to end up lying, deceiving, and characterizing ourselves in a way that has nothing. to do with who we really are, let alone who we want to be.
Why do we only attract the wrong people? It all lies in the fact that we are a reflection of what we attract. The level of worth we see in ourselves is what people we attract generally have, because we accept the love we believe we deserve. In addition, the fear of change will lead us to look for someone with whom we feel comfortable, which is why we will always look for the same pattern.
The less evolved we are, the more we attract complicated and painful situations. When we attract people or conflict situations, in reality we attract change and personal growth. The greatest lessons that can be learned come from times of crisis, as Seneca said so well in his time; adversity is an opportunity for virtue.
True maturity comes from accepting that everything that happens to us is perfect, because things happen in a process of perfection. Understanding that the problems we have are, for the most part, an opportunity for us to grow and mature, it will allow us to improve ourselves. On the contrary, viewing these problems as failure is only a way to bury our aspirations.
Think about it well; without rejection, without giving up, without rejecting, without giving up, would you be the same person that you are now? In my case at least, without all the negative things I had to overcome, today I couldn’t enjoy life the way I do.
Everything that happens to us is perfect, for things happen in a process of perfection.
I have been an unlucky person. Nothing has been easy for me.
